“They Kept Laughing”: Groom And His Family Ruin This Woman’s Dress, Regret It After She Leaves With Her Gift (2024)

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Ilona Baliūnaitė

Author, BoredPanda staff

B-b-bird

Seems like his family targeted her. They should apologise. Bride should be careful, as, if grooms family had a nerve to do that to 18yo relative that they don’t know, can imagine what they are capable of doing to bride. Especially teaming up. Red flag

Sonja

Even if the dress was inapropriate, that alone would not make this behaviour ok.And what I find especially appalling is that obviously everyone thought it was funny that she was humiliated and had her dress ruined and no one cared that she was walking out, as this seems to have been the intent anyway, but only when they realised A) how much she had gifted and B) she wouldn't leave that kind of money with people who'd hurt her like this, they fell all over to apologize to her.This part is absolutely inexcusable.

millac

....how would they know how much money she was taking back? Was she shouting about her thousand dollars as she walked out with it? How extremely tacky. The dress was entirely inappropriate, both in color and cut. The groom's young sister is the one who dumped wine, and I'm guessing that's a case of internet-says-so (reddit and social media is 100% behind and encouraging of wine dumping at weddings as completely justified) and "sitcom funny" (i.e. something that seems funny from a distance, but is, in reality, pretty horrible when you think about it or if it happens for real, like the hijinks in a sitcom). The sister owes the apology, not the groom, but the OP should realize that, should she get the additional apologies she expects, she will be expected to hand over the check in return. Since she doesn't want to, she should accept her cousin's apology and move on.

B-b-bird

Seems like his family targeted her. They should apologise. Bride should be careful, as, if grooms family had a nerve to do that to 18yo relative that they don’t know, can imagine what they are capable of doing to bride. Especially teaming up. Red flag

Sonja

Even if the dress was inapropriate, that alone would not make this behaviour ok.And what I find especially appalling is that obviously everyone thought it was funny that she was humiliated and had her dress ruined and no one cared that she was walking out, as this seems to have been the intent anyway, but only when they realised A) how much she had gifted and B) she wouldn't leave that kind of money with people who'd hurt her like this, they fell all over to apologize to her.This part is absolutely inexcusable.

millac

....how would they know how much money she was taking back? Was she shouting about her thousand dollars as she walked out with it? How extremely tacky. The dress was entirely inappropriate, both in color and cut. The groom's young sister is the one who dumped wine, and I'm guessing that's a case of internet-says-so (reddit and social media is 100% behind and encouraging of wine dumping at weddings as completely justified) and "sitcom funny" (i.e. something that seems funny from a distance, but is, in reality, pretty horrible when you think about it or if it happens for real, like the hijinks in a sitcom). The sister owes the apology, not the groom, but the OP should realize that, should she get the additional apologies she expects, she will be expected to hand over the check in return. Since she doesn't want to, she should accept her cousin's apology and move on.